Teachings of the zodiac signs

We go through life learning lessons. Okay, I know it was not shocking, but what if we didn’t have? Someone up there is playing The Sims with us and wants us to evolve. I want to share some experiences and I’m hoping that you will take some from this.

  1. Aries. Aries is the sign of self. It is ruled by mars, the planet of war and action. Have you ever met an Aries who was not all about themself? They know the importance of being your own independent person. Although they tend to make hasty decisions, but in the end they own it. They seem to be selfish but they are not. They think for themselves first and then for other people. Nobody can save you except you. Life begins in you, so get goin’!
  2. Taurus. This is the sign that rules all the material possessions. Venus the goddess of beauty likes to have the newest Louis Vuitton bag. I have never met a Taurus that was not rich. They are manifesters and they know every possession comes from patience and hard work. If they had acquired something new, they will show it with a little bit of glamour and comfort. Hard work pays off!
  3. Gemini. The twins are the messengers. They know that communication is key to succeed in life. Whether it be relationships, business or something that involves talking you need to communicate how you feel and what you think. This sign is ruled by Mercury, and it urges us to exchange ideas with a little wit on the side.
  4. Cancer. Cancer is the momma of the zodiac. Ruled by the Moon, and changes like the Moon.  She rules the home and childhood. These people know the importance of family early on. Your house should reflect your personality and it should protect you from this harsh world that we live in. Your home should be your temple and where you regenerate your batteries. Home, sweet home!
  5. Leo. The fifth sign is about fun, romance, creativity and being the superstar. It is ruled by the Sun, so it’s no wonder why everything revolves around them.  Who would not want a Leo around them? Live in the moment they say! They can lift up the mood in every moment. They want to surround themself with love. I heard many Leo say ‘It’s nice to be loving, and have others around you being loving too.’ Have fun and live life to the fullest.
  6. Virgo. Detail. Details. Details. And a little bit of routine. Mercury rules this sign too. Virgo is about being the service for others. These practical minded people know how to fix things and know that it is good to help others. If you help someone; you will get that back in some shape or form.
  7. Libra. The relationship sign is ruled by Venus. Libras know the importance of partnerships. As you go through life, you may want someone with you to share the experience. Humans are social creatures, so start nurturing your relationships. This flirty sign can also make a great judge. They are always weighing things out, trying to find the balance. You might want to give them a nice compliment next time you meet them! It’s about raising other people up with kind words and not the other way around.
  8. Scorpio. Love them or hate them? The sign of true intimacy is ruled by Pluto. Yes, they rule sex, but intimacy is about being vulnerable and trust. Learn to trust even if many had betrayed you. It is also about regeneration. Kill the ego and be reborn. Letting go of the old self and rise again like the phoenix. Anyone watch Harry Potter?
  9. Sagittarius.  Ruled by Jupiter, which is the planet of good fortune and amplification. This constellation is the center of our galaxy. Sagittarius A. There’s a huge black hole you don’t want to travel there as this sign suggests. Travel, foreign and higher learning. This sign wants you to know that the journey is more important than the destination. When the centaur shoots its arrows thats when the magic happens. Sagittarius is the most open minded sign, and the most opinionated. Don’t be afraid to tell your opinions. They will judge you anyway.
  10. Capricorn. The father of the zodiac. They are ruled by Saturn, which is feared by the majority. This sign wants you to be responsible and learn lessons the hard way. Have you ever had a stranger yelled at you because you did something wrong? That was a Saturn figure. It taught you a lesson. When there’s a hardship in your life, you should always ask yourself ‘What is my lesson in this situation?’. It wants you to do the right thing and become a strong person. First the exam then comes the lesson.
  11. Aquarius. Uranus is the ruling planet of this sign. It wants to rebel and be different. Do not be afraid to innovate. Do something unexpected and see that there are different ways to do things. Jesus was an aquarius. The water bearer shared his water with the community. Sometimes he turned it into wine, but that’s not the point. The point is that we are social people and we have to do something for our community as well. If you want something you never had, you should do something you never did. Be wild and free!
  12. Pisces. The last one is the oldest sign. It contains a bit of every sign. The neptunian sign rules the unconscious and the dreams. This sign wants you to love yourself and others unconditionally. Unconditional love is the most powerful drive. When you love and let go of fears you can be a true warrior. You can become anything, just like the water. It changes shape constantly.

First world problems

  1. Breaking up over the phone. Come on, really? Most of us have become so obsessed with technology that human interactions are becoming socially unacceptable. I had my love break up with me over text. It’s more convenient to type out ‘it’s over’ rather than telling me in my face. It should be an amendment. Breaking up with your loved one must always take place in person. No one wants to be broken up with over the phone. Our phones are something we can’t sleep and poop without. Please don’t do it. It’s an ever reminder until I get new phone. I don’t want to cry when I do mundane things.
  2. Close all the way. Have you ever lived with someone that never closed the door all the way? My mom and sister does this. It’s like they formed an alliance against me in secret. ‘We shall never close the door all the way’ Union. It’s so annoying and it feels exposing to this harsh world. It takes only 2 seconds out of your time to pull the door a little bit more. You are disrespecting my privacy rights. Everyone should be given doors like they have in the supermarket. You know when you stop at a certain point to see when it opens and closes.
  3. Mosquito. We need to stop them. Whenever I have my morning coffee. Hmm, I mean drink coffee at midnight. These little creatures seem to be drawn to it. They fly around it and then decide to commit suicide and drown in my coffee. Then the next thing you know is your ‘fun’ night in with your imaginary friends is ruined. Be careful out there people! Not only mosquitos want your blood, but they want your coffee as well. That’s what they get from being greedy. So, my idea is that we should set up spider hubs which will reduce the blood-coffee-drinking-animals-that-can-fly population. The spiders would be contained in a box up in the corner of your room with regular coffee and a drop of blood. If you’re fancy then there would be a premium edition which would have Starbucks coffee and a virgin’s blood. I should stop saying blood.
  4. Socks. The worst thing in the morning is finding new socks to wear. Everything seems fine when you do your laundry. You have all the pairs of the dirty socks. Later on, a smurf sneaks in somehow to steal the matching pair of your socks. The reason behind it is they need to give it to the overlords who want to destroy the world. So what they do is steal your sock and place it on the shrine and save the world. We should be thankful, although people who have OCD don’t appreciate it. It’s an outrage to wear different type of socks all day. The solution is simple. Buy an extra pair of socks and leave it in your drawer. Don’t forget to write a thank you letter for them.
  5. Battery life. The world has come to a time when we are able to send a spacecraft to check out how Pluto is doing, but the battery in our cell phone can’t last more than one day. The more we advance in technology the more ‘simple’ things become wired. You know that awesome moment when you are on social media all day and you want to call someone and your phone dies and there’s no place to charge it. I don’t mind it being thicker for an extra ten hour. Thin isn’t so good after all.
  6. Heating food in microwave. Most of the time I set it for 2 minutes. When I push the start button the microwaves from the appliance seem to affect my brain. I get motivated to clean my room in that time. When my friends ask me how do I keep my room clean, I tell them ‘It’s the microwaves’. Of course they think I’m cray-cray. But sometimes that 2 minutes isn’t enough time to clean everything. I can’t have a clean room and warm food at the same time. The struggle is real. It’s more productive to spend 3 hours on the internet than cleaning.
  7. Customer service. There comes a time in everyone’s life when all the lights are on and the modem still doesn’t want to convert the signals from analog to digital. You have no idea why you can’t access Google (That’s how I test whether I’m connected or not.). If you’re a Windows user you try to run troubleshooting yet you know it will tell you that you should visit a certain website to see how to fix the connectivity problem. So, the last thing is to call your Internet Service Provider. You press 1, then 3 and then 2 and so on. Finally, when you entered the GDP of United States of America you might be able to get someone to talk to. But first, you might want to listen to a song that is being repeated every 30 seconds. After 24 minutes you give up, still no internet. What’s left? Drawing in paint.
  8. Youtube videos. The other day I was watching this soap opera on Youtube. Sometimes longer videos are uploaded in different parts. I’m all excited to find out who is the girl the rich guy chooses. I have my food ready. I watch part 1. I watch part 2. The intensity is growing. Where’s part 3? I see there is a video called part 4 and 5, but no part 3? What I do, is enter in the search bar and no results. I click on the part 4 and it isn’t where it should be. It is the most important moment in the show and the uploader trolled the viewers. The uploader should live this through the way I did. Betrayal of the year.
  9. Hairdresser. Most people go to the same hair salon because they like their hair done by a particular hairdresser. I couldn’t go to my hairdresser for 3 months because of my new job. What a misfortune. My head was becoming the new Amazon jungle, except people didn’t want to cut any trees from it. Now you’re protecting the environment?!
  10. People that complain about very small things. I know, I contradict myself on purpose. Sometimes it’s good to let it all out. It’s good for the soul. Have you ever heard people say ‘I can’t reach for the remote.’? Or ‘That hot guy won’t message me on facebook. Am I cursed or something?’. Here’s another one ‘I left my wallet home and I don’t have enough change to buy gas so I can drive my new BMW.’ Ugh feel so bad. Next time tell them to shut the front door!

Deal with “them insecure”

“People who are trying to put you down are jealous of you. ” Have you ever heard that before? The cliché is true; been there, done that. You might don’t believe in it, but that’s a sign of intimidation by the other party. They say whatever they can just to put you down and try to get a reaction out of you, they want to make you go like “oh, no I’m not….”. They want to put you down just to elevate themselves. It is insecurity, whether if it comes from your friend, mom, uncle and the list goes on.

First.The way I deal with it is that I don’t show any emotion; it’s hard but it is effective, even though it hurts you still don’t give them what they want.

Second. No one defines who you are except you. If someone calls you names or just being mean; I’d suggest telling them “That’s your opinion.” Get your poker face on and be professional.


These people want attention, and if you don’t give them the reaction they want, people will see how mean they were. You’ll be given credit, because you handled the situation well.

Let me know what you think in the comment section below!

A really nice quote

Recently I came across this quote and thought I would share it, because it has a nice message.

The most important relationship is the one you have with yourself. The kind of relationship you have with yourself is the same you have with others. Having no love for one’s self means having no love for others as well. We all have to learn more about ourselves day by day and we all should show compassion towards ourselves as well as to others.


The more love you have for you, the more you have for others. The more acceptance you have for you, the more you have for others. The more forgiveness you have for you, the more you have for others. Try this concept.

Love yourself because you are unique!

Love yourself because you deserve it

One of the main ingredients of being happy is not comparing one’s self to another. There’s really no point of doing it whatsoever. We are all marred in some way and so we are here to transform that to our greatness. I’ve seen people destroy themselves by comparing themselves to others. It makes you sad and leaves you feeling worthless. Why on Earth would anyone do that? 

We are all eccentric, hence we cannot be compared. Some people have it easier and some have everything fall on their lap. Life isn’t fair, just deal with that and you’re good to go. Set your own rules, and play by them. No one has the right to tell you who you are, only you, you are the one who controls your life; the biggest question is: are you willing to take control of it, or are you letting yourself down? Everything is just one decision away from you. Choose to work hard for your dreams and never let anyone to break you nor make you feel bad about yourself. You should know that you are a beautiful being and even if you’ve made bad decisions in your past, you grew from them. Stand tall and be proud of who you are, because you have an important role in society; you make the best you. You should focus on what you have and make the most of it. When you start being grateful of what you have, you start duplicating them. You will start becoming the authentic self of yours. It makes life so much easier, start seeking, start doing, start feeling, start working. Set your own pace and learn what lessons life will give to you.

When you stop comparing yourself, you will start seeing how great you are. There will always be people who seem to have it better, but you never really know until you are in their shoes. I’ve always seen certain people that they have it so much better and as the time passed by, they became less perfect. You are awesome with your flaws, and know that you can be loved! Have a little love for yourself because you deserve it.

Please just give yourself a chance, take a risk and make the decision to show who you really are.


Stay motivated

Getting motivated is easy. Staying motivated is the hard part. Just like if you would move to New York City; the easy part is getting there, but the hard part is actually staying there and not going insane.

I’ve always wondered about people who tell me that they’ve set a goal for themselves and then the next thing you know is that they did not do anything at all. Really? There is this trick if you tell people your goals, you are more likely to follow thorough them. No one wants to be seen as unreliable and no one wants to be taken for granted. For some people maybe this is the only way to keep going. For some people it just does not work. But then again you ask them about it and they get insecure and you end up being the ‘worst’ person ever, ‘how could you ask something like this’? Can you relate to this scene? I have been there, and even done that.

What if this ‘tell people to stay motivated’ method does not work for you? It does not work for me, so you are not alone. What I do is I set a goal for myself and wait 3 weeks, while not making any progress. When the 3 weeks are over I will know if I really wanted to do it or not. I think that there are ‘outbursts’ in everyone and then they get excited about it and then they don’t really want it after all. The real question is ‘Do you really want to do that?’.

Let’s say you want to start jogging. You planted the seeds in your head. What happens next? You plan it out and feel good. You know the prize. You do it for a week and you suddenly stop. After that you feel like a failure and you can’t do anything right. Failure is the best lesson, making mistakes is really important in order for you to develop and it should be embraced rather than reject. Take it as a chance to learn and figure out why did you fail. Maybe you did not really want that. Or maybe you want it, but you were impatient, because you did not see any results. Patience is key. That is why I recommend to wait about 3 weeks until you start something. The seed needs some time in order to grow bigger and bigger. Seed as in motivation. After 3 weeks you suddenly see that there is a sprout growing and it starts to grow even faster, or the seeds die. There will be enough motivation for you to develop jogging as a habit and you won’t even think about it.

Another way is; to-do list. Even if you don’t really have much going on, you still can fill the list. You can write anything on your to-do list; let’s say; have breakfast; after you had your breakfast you can tick that and you feel a little bit more productive even though you only had breakfast. First 10 days practice this without any serious business, After that start adding things you want to do but you are too lazy to do so. Slowly make your way to the desired plan. I’m telling you it will be much easier if you do it this way, though you have to experience it in order to understand it. You will learn to manage your time better and your time becomes productivity.

Whether you think you can or can not, you are right! That should help you on your way, and believe in yourself because you are a unique person in this world and thus you can become who you want to be!

If you have any questions, feel free to ask me!

30 Day Challenge

From my experience life is constantly changing. People change, relationships change, the environment is changing, the Queen Of England is changing and so on. Everything changes for the better. The change can manifest thorough a break up, a loss of a loved one, winning on the lottery, and even a little change in your thinking. I think that everything happens for a reason and that makes me feel better wherever I’m feeling down. I know and you should know as well that certain events in our life time happens because it will lead to our greater good.

Sometimes we become stagnant and we can’t move forward. We do the same thing everyday and our lives become boring. When we take a look around everybody seems to enjoy life and you feel like you can’t escape from your routine no matter how hard you want. You know you want to change then again you have no motivation or you try and fail. Failure is a lesson remember that! Think of it this way; Rather fail a million times and be the best at the end, than being good almost instantly. Here’s my guide to make your life more colorful.

  1. You want to change. It is admirable when someone knows that they have to change. Take this as a first step. See you made it!
  2. Start small. I mean really small. This is crucial since most people set out real high goals for themselves and they can’t follow thorough and so they give up and become sad. Starting small will make you get into the habit of doing something productive for yourself. For instance; cook something you have never eaten before, the next day open your dictionary and learn a new word. Challenge yourself for 30 days by making things that you have never done before. Keep track of them!
  3. Read a book. Reading a book will expand your vocabulary and makes you more creative. Read 10 pages everyday from a particular book that you have chosen.
  4. Go out for a run at least once a week. You’ll get use to it. You will get some fresh air as well and your energy levels will grow.
  5. Break one habit. Do you smoke? Do you bite your nails? Do you like eating junk food over healthy food? It’s okay to be extreme sometimes but set your limits.
  6. Find out what you are really good at. Are you good at playing pool? Do you learn languages easily? Can you move your ears? Whatever that is, share with the world. If you are unsure about it ask your friends and family. They might give you an inspiration.
  7. Don’t listen to criticism. You are the only person who knows what you did, what you experienced. You should know that you are a unique person and you are important!
  8. Be patient! If you have set out a goal that you will lose weight or gain muscle mass, you should know that it will not happen overnight. As I said before people get discouraged by not seeing progress. Don’t fall for that mistake. If everything we want would happen instantly, it would lose value and that’s why I think working hard is a gift for us so they become value.

Remember to start small! You can do it, it is within you and no one can take it away from you. Release your inner strength and show the world that you have the courage to step into what you really want!

Feel free to leave a comment and ask me if you have any questions!